tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post5960381767782497243..comments2023-10-30T14:26:47.315+05:30Comments on Hip Hop Grandmom: Gup shap-3Hip Grandmahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16891699611146003601noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-46847814670400476142008-11-30T21:04:00.000+05:302008-11-30T21:04:00.000+05:30J P Joshi:You are right.It is best to have minimum...J P Joshi:You are right.It is best to have minimum expectation if at all. better not to have any.<BR/><BR/>prats:It was a nice break wasn't it?Hip Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891699611146003601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-79738074571552355172008-11-29T23:30:00.000+05:302008-11-29T23:30:00.000+05:30Such true words...a marraige is union of two varie...Such true words...a marraige is union of two varied environments. Be it intellectual, or cultural or just pure beliefs...its an amalgamation. Its how well the people involved in it allow it to blend...<BR/>A wedding is a warm welcome for youngsters to be introduced to the older traditions of social skills...<BR/>I just have come away from a family wedding too...and my thoughts echo yoursPratshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10849938760602815322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-15544252699949292262008-11-29T20:49:00.000+05:302008-11-29T20:49:00.000+05:30'But more than the celebration, marriage means the...'But more than the celebration, marriage means the coming together of two families. Very often it is the coming together of two cultures. It is an occasion for mutual respect. The girl enters her new home not really knowing what to expect. If she is received with love and affection there is every chance that she’d reciprocate in the same manner.' How true! but sadly this is observed more by its absence. Expectations kill marriages even before they are solemnised.J P Joshihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08806649492059145583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-47253286577139330632008-11-29T19:39:00.000+05:302008-11-29T19:39:00.000+05:30raghu:visiting after a long time?yes marriage is o...raghu:visiting after a long time?yes marriage is only the beginning of a life long relationship.Why do people spoil it by creating a 'hungama' on the very day?Hip Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891699611146003601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-63265950581066732792008-11-29T11:23:00.000+05:302008-11-29T11:23:00.000+05:30Yes.. marriage is more than just an affair between...Yes.. marriage is more than just an affair between two people. Its the starting point of mixing of cultures, ideas, beliefs, lifestyles and the dna's of two families. And initial care can go a long way in a happy union of the families. <BR/><BR/>Glad you enjoyed the event.Raghuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00915576561252138522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-20597916237360651702008-11-28T19:20:00.000+05:302008-11-28T19:20:00.000+05:30mampi:This should actually be 'gup shap-3.Weddings...mampi:This should actually be 'gup shap-3.Weddings are enjoyable but I also feel that a lot of food goes waste.<BR/><BR/>Ardra:The main attraction for my age group is meeting people and catching up with family news.<BR/><BR/>dipali:no one has the time to thoroughly enjoy the occasion.At least not the current generation of IT profs.<BR/><BR/>sumana:you are so right.<BR/><BR/>hillg'mom:this is what I get to hear from my sister in chennai.She represents our family on most occasions.For me this is a rare pleasure.<BR/><BR/>vishesh:At your age marriages may be boring.A few years from now they may hold some interest.Did you know a lot of match making goes on the side??Hip Grandmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16891699611146003601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-20740053042577175722008-11-27T19:53:00.000+05:302008-11-27T19:53:00.000+05:30ha i have got a lot of marriages to attend,but i c...ha i have got a lot of marriages to attend,but i consider them as a bore :PVisheshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14452040774198026145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-13790469266146408252008-11-27T19:25:00.000+05:302008-11-27T19:25:00.000+05:30For the other side of this--I live in a small town...For the other side of this--I live in a small town, which is the home of my husband's family. So, during marriage season, we sometimes end up attending up to 3 and 4 weddings a day! But it's true that a wedding of a close family member is great fun.hillgrandmomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01805698959846687562noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-54452866353201396702008-11-27T16:15:00.000+05:302008-11-27T16:15:00.000+05:30It is so nice and refreshing to get transformed to...It is so nice and refreshing to get transformed to childhood the days and the good times spent. It is like enjoying a good movie and coming back to time.Sumanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16894195422278069398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-8764128413427103552008-11-27T14:14:00.000+05:302008-11-27T14:14:00.000+05:30So true. These occasions seem to be too few and fa...So true. These occasions seem to be too few and far between now.dipalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01070862196307376073noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-27518336399968766812008-11-27T13:08:00.000+05:302008-11-27T13:08:00.000+05:30yes, totally true HHG...the coming together of fam...yes, totally true HHG...<BR/>the coming together of family members from far away- the reminiscences make all the hardwork involved worth it...Ardrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10005169454353807178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29858077.post-24372323461823449382008-11-26T21:33:00.000+05:302008-11-26T21:33:00.000+05:30The part 2 came too late.But loved it.Agree with y...The part 2 came too late.<BR/>But loved it.<BR/>Agree with you that the weddings are great occasions to get together and recount all the family times together. I love the grand coming together of allllll the family-relatives from far and close; fights; roothna-manaana; gossip; cribbing by the cribbers of the family and merry making in general.Mampihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02151567171626446275noreply@blogger.com